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The Mindfulness Practice That Protects My Day

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I start each day with the intention of being mindful.

 

Not because I’m trying to become some perfectly calm, floating-through-life person. I do it because I wake up creative. My mind opens like a browser with 37 tabs already loading, and if I’m not careful, I’ll go straight to creating and doing.

 

That’s the challenge: not going straight into output.

 

Because creativity is a gift… and also a sneaky little thief. It can steal the quiet moments that set the tone for everything else.

 

So I practice a small pause before I produce anything.

 

And I’ve learned this: those small pauses ripple through the day.

 

 

Mindfulness Doesn’t Have to Look Like “Meditation”

 

For a long time, people have pictured meditation as one specific thing: sitting still, eyes closed, quiet mind.

 

But my practice looks a lot more like awareness woven into real life.

 

It’s not about stopping thoughts. It’s about noticing what’s here — breath, sensation, sound, even thought — without needing to push anything away.

 

From that place, the whole day becomes available as practice.

 

 

What It Looks Like in My Real Life

 

My version of this practice is simple and deeply personal.

 

Most mornings, I sit and watch the woodpecker pecking at the trees, focused on finding breakfast. I listen to the water moving — that steady fan sound across the surface. The wind chimes ding in the background. Birds call from near and far. I can feel the morning air on my skin.

 

I notice the smell of my tea.

 

Often, Jeff plays music — and somehow that makes the whole moment feel even more alive, like my nervous system remembers it’s safe to slow down.

 

Nothing about it is complicated. That’s the point.

 

It’s just me choosing to arrive before I go do anything.

 

 

The Real Practice Happens All Day

 

Here’s what I’ve discovered: the morning pause matters… but the real power is carrying it with me.

 

I try to stay in a mindful state of being often and all day — not in a rigid way, not like a rule, but like a rhythm.

 

As I scan the room or walk outside, I take brief moments to feel, hear, smell before I walk off and do the next thing.

 

It might be three seconds.

 

A tiny check-in:

 

  • What do I hear right now?

  • What can I feel on my skin?

  • What scent is in the air?

  • Where is my breath?

 

And then I move on.

 

That’s it.

 

But those brief pauses keep me more present in that moment — and those moments add up to a different kind of day.

 

A day where I’m not just getting through it.

A day where I actually live inside it.

 

 

Why This Matters (Especially for Creative People)

 

If you’re wired like me — creative, fast, idea-driven — you don’t need more productivity hacks.

 

You need a way to come back to yourself.

 

Because if you start and stay in “create mode” all day, it can feel like life is something happening around you while your mind runs the show.

 

Mindfulness interrupts that.

 

Not by stopping your thoughts.

 

By widening your awareness enough to include your life again.

 

 

A Micro-Practice You Can Steal

 

Before the next thing — the next call, the next errand, the next task — take one breath and run a quick sensory scan:

 

  1. Hear one sound.

  2. Feel one sensation.

  3. Smell one scent (or notice the absence of one).

  4. Breathe once, on purpose.

 

Then go.

 

It’s not dramatic. It’s not performative.

 

It’s just presence.

 

 

Closing: I’m Not Perfect. I’m Practicing.

 

To be honest, I’m not perfect at this.

 

I still catch myself slipping into creative mode and moving straight into doing. I’ll be planning, writing, fixing, producing — before I’ve even fully arrived in my own body.

 

But I’m practicing.

 

And the practice is simple: I become aware.

 

I notice what’s happening, without judging it. And in that moment of noticing, I get a choice. I can pause. I can breathe. I can feel the air on my skin, hear the birds, smell my tea, and come back to right now.

 

Not perfectly. Just intentionally.

 

Because mindfulness isn’t about getting it right.

 

It’s about returning — again and again — as I become aware.





P.S. If you’re ready to go a little deeper right now, explore the Resource Page or learn more about Living LIT Memberships for tools and practices to help you stay grounded, aware, and connected throughout your day.

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